Tell someone kindly

Telling someone is a kind next step

You are not accusing anyone. You are helping them get care. STIs are common. Treatment exists. This is responsibility, not dirtiness.

Pick any path. All three are valid. There is no failing if you only prepare the words.

• Share it yourself

  Use your phone’s share sheet — Line, Messages, or whatever you already use.

  Honest: if you send this in a chat they already have with you, they will know it is from you. That is still a caring, responsible step — it is not anonymous.

  Open share sheet

• Copy a kind message

  A ready-to-paste note. No infection name. Edit it if you want.

  Same honesty: pasting into an existing chat is not anonymous. Copying first is enough for now.

  I’ve been thinking of you and wanted you to have this. A clinic visit would be a kindness to both of us. No pressure and no blame. This link has no names; it only helps you know what to ask for: /go?e=fluid&d=14

  This reads as care, not blame.

  Copy the message

• Ask a clinic to notify

  Most anonymous for you

  Public-health and many community clinics can tell partners without using your name. This is usually the most anonymous option for you.

  This app never stores a partner’s phone number. You speak to the desk. They handle the notice.

  “I would like help notifying partners without using my name. I do not want to share their numbers with an app.”

  Find a public or community clinic

  Call and ask if they offer partner notification. Listing is not a guarantee.